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Seven (7) common mistakes you can make as a young person when aiming for success

Here they are:
1. Procrastination: This is a very common deadly practice even to me as a person. This is when you delay important tasks for the latter, this can hinder your progress. The most important thing is to DO IT NOW!

2. Lack of goals: It might be rusty and unclear sometimes but you have to write your goals down. One common practice for me is to write it on the go even with the use of my phone because not all the time I go along with my writing materials. Failing to set clear, achievable goals can lead to aimlessness.

3. Fear of failure: Not even in this economic state that you should avoid risk. You have to take a step and do what others might be scared of doing. Whether it works or not, the thing is that you have tried and you would have learned better ways to try next time. Avoiding risks can limit personal and professional growth.

4. Ignoring feedback: One practice I emulate at times is to allow other people to evaluate me in terms of my working relationship, efforts I put to work, attitude and behaviours, etc
I'm always striving to be better every day.

Depending on the level that you might be, you can ask anyone or colleagues that are most times being around you to share open constructive criticism/feedback, to #improve yourself. Trust me you might be so confident in yourself and be losing it greatly.

5. Neglecting selfcare: As the singer 'Timaya' said "For this life, I can't kill myself o". Not every day and time should be work and doings. If you Ignore your physical and mental health, you are getting ready to affect your overall well-being. Like they say 'Work Hard, Play Hard' and I will be adding this to it 'Meditate Hard'.

6. Collaboration: Yes. I had to add this to the list because I can see the power and reach it can drive an idea or project. When you work alone you might be missing out on great networks, feedback, and even greater reach and support. As a young person don't overestimate your ability, and learn to work with other persons or institutions that align with your goal or mission, This might help to avoid poor decision-making at times. 

7. Poor financial management: Spend on what you can afford and invest in what you can trust not what will give you instant or bogus returns; which are mostly scams playing on your financial intelligence. Mishandling money can create long-term financial challenges.

Note: Research and Read books on financial intelligence and management, it will help you a lot (as I'm also learning too).

Thank you and I do hope you got some value. Also, note that your journey is unique, and having a deeper reflection with proper planning and risk-taking can set you apart from other people who are aiming for success aimlessly.
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